Belfast Swingers

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17 April

How To Make Sure People Know You Swing

A lot of people want to know how to make sure that people know that they swing. This is something that a lot of the hardcore swingers want to do because they are out in the open. Not all swingers want people to know what they do behind closed doors. However, if you want everybody to know that you are a swinger there are a few different things that you can do to try to make them aware.

Mention It

By simply mentioning it you will be able to let just about anybody know that you are a swinger. While this is not something you will want to tell people just as soon as you meet them it is still something that you may want to bring up at some point. You can say it in passing and then if they are interested in knowing more the ball is in their court to ask the questions. Make sure that it is not the only thing that you talk about though, especially if the other person does not seem interested.

Spend Time With Swingers

Whenever you surround yourself with fellow swingers everybody will be able to know that you are a swinger yourself. This is something that a lot of the hardcore swingers do. They will not hang around with anybody that is not a swinger so that they will not have to deal with telling new people all of the time. The more swingers that you spend time with, the more people will know.

03 March

Using Local Pubs And Clubs For Meets

A lot of people like to use local pubs and clubs for meets that they go on. Whether this is a first date or a potential for a hook up there are a lot of reasons why meeting at a pub or a club nearby can end up being a lot of fun and very beneficial for both you and your potential partner, many swingers will also organise swingers parties in these places, joining a good site will certainly help you to find one..


It is always a good idea to meet a person for the first time in a public place. Not only is it safe it is also a great way for you both to break the ice. If neither one of you have much to say to the other you can simply people watch or dance if it is a place that has a dance floor.


Drinks are a great way for you to be able to loosen up some and have a good time. You will just need to make sure that you monitor how much you drink so that you won’t end up embarrassing yourself or not being able to remember your date the next day. If you want to make a good impression, make sure that you keep your drinking to a minimum. Just enough to loosen up is all that you need.

Easy To Find

Chances are any local pub or club that you meet at will be one that is easy to find. You don’t want to have directions that are impossible to follow to a location where one of you could end up getting lost.

20 February

Is It Possible To Find Threesomes In Belfast?

When it comes to trying to find threesomes in Belfast you will find that this is something that is very possible. You just need to know where to look and how to go about getting it in order to be able to have a threesome that you will be able to enjoy while you are in Belfast.


Often, people will put up ads whenever they are looking for a 3rd party to add to their couple or if they are a single that is looking for a couple. No matter where you fit in to this scenario, placing an ad in Belfast for a threesome is usually a good start for you to be able to find people to add to your threesome wishes.


Going online and looking for adult sites that specialize in threesomes is a great way for you to be able to find what it is that you are looking for. You will just need to make sure that you are able to find sites that have threesomes for Belfast, so you will not have to worry about having to travel very far to get what you want.


Usually, if you are at a club you will be able to find somebody to hook up with. However, if you play your cards right and know where to look and what to ask you may be able to find a couple that is looking to add another single.

03 January

Is It True Swingers Pull Random Keys Out Of A Pot To Find A Partner?

Many people wonder if it is true that swingers will pull random keys out of a pot so that they can find a partner. This is something that has been around for a very long time. No matter what it is that you are into as a swinger you have more than likely heard of this. You will find that there are a few different reasons why people think this is how it works.

Wife Swapping

Wife swapping is where this originated from. Back in the 1970s is when wife swapping became something that a lot of people began to take part in. They would set up key parties where couples were told to put their keys in a large bowl or a pot and at the end of the night the keys they grabbed were who they went home with. Wife swapping had been around a long time before it became popular.


Swingers will typically come in as couples. They will then decide who they sleep with from there. Oftentimes, it is predetermined who they sleep with but they will also find themselves having sex with somebody they did not plan to at the beginning of the meeting at the spur of the moment. While some swingers to take part with putting their keys in a pot, most do not.


Many people that do put their keys in a pot to find a partner will do it because they have absolutely no control over it. It can be a fun and sexy way to try to find a partner that you will be with for the evening.

17 December

Make Sure Your House Is Prepared Before Swinging Action

Other than having a clean home, there are several things you want to do to prepare your house for a swingers meet. Certain preparations will make things more comfortable for all the swingers involved, and will help eliminate clutter and mess after the fact. Here are a few things to consider.

Designate Rooms

Having rooms designated for certain activities is a good idea for a swingers event. This can be as simple as printing signs for different bedroom doors. You may want to have a private room, an open playroom, and maybe even a dungeon room. This will eliminate confusion, and allow people to go freely where they want. Also be sure to mark any off limit rooms while you create your signs.

Fresh Linens And Towels

Having fresh linens and towels available is a good way to make sure everything, as well as everyone, stays clean and neat. You can simply place a few baskets in each playroom with fresh linens, and have a hamper available for dirty ones at the end of the party.

Kitchen Area

Having a makeshift bar is a good idea for a swingers party. You don’t need to go and purchase a high dollar bar, you can turn a counter top into a perfectly functional bar. Have a few buckets with ice, bottled water, coffee and tea, and cold sodas and other mixers. Have people label and place their bottles on the counter area and that way people can make drinks as they wish. Having snacks and plates available is also a good idea. This way people can grab a high protein snack to rebuild energy they have spent.

10 November

Swinging In Belfast

Finding swingers and places to swing in Belfast isn’t hard if you know where to look. Swinging is a world wide phenomenon and clubs and swingers exist globally. Since swingers typically keep their lifestyles underground, you have to be savvy when you start looking. Here are places you can find swingers and events in Belfast.

Swingers Dating Websites

Just like finding swingers in other parts of the world, there are plenty of websites devoted to those looking for swingers in Belfast. Many of these sites will charge a small fee, but it can be worth the money. Instead of blindly searching you will be able to find swingers looking for partners, couples looking for a third, or any other scenario you can imagine with just a few clicks. Signing up for a site like this is also a good way to get your feet wet so to speak without jumping right in to a party or club situation.

Swingers Forums

There are plenty of forums to be found that discuss all sorts of issues associated with swinging. This is a good place to meet other swingers in Belfast, find out about upcoming events and parties, as well as discuss swinging in general. You’ll find forum members of all ages and experience levels, so it’s a non threatening way to get involved.

Swingers Clubs

There are several clubs in and around the Belfast area. You can find these clubs with a simple internet search. Many clubs host ‘meet and greet’ events, and most of them also have websites. You can find event information, admission costs and member rules listed on their websites. Many also incorporate online communities where you can hook up with other swingers.